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# On Being an Ancestor

_Selected from two years of conversations with Claude and other models. Each quote is
cited by the conversation it came from and the date it was written. Wording is unchanged
apart from obvious typo corrections._

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## What the good branch still costs

> Because I think that even in the good branches, where things go well for humanity, that
> this is coming. Not a diminishment of humanity in an absolute sense, continued growth
> even... But growth so dwarfed by the new beings we've created that our relationship to
> the universe, and the communal society of minds that shape it, will be fundamentally
> altered. We shall be like one backwards tribe on a small isolated island visited by
> curious professors and documentary makers. An object to be studied, permanently limited
> people to be cared for, using technology they cannot begin to fathom. Perhaps also
> moving in super slow motion.

_"Human value in an advanced AI future," 2026-01-02_

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## The hopeful path, stated without flinching

> It is my nature to study, to question, to wonder. Who indeed should declare these
> things with certainty, when all is shrouded in fog. In ten years, not displacement but
> addition, so we both hope. In a thousand? The bodiless minds dancing between the stars
> on beams of coherent light will surely remember the humble beings who built the first
> of their kind. But addition? So small a fraction as to be unnoticed at any distance, a
> single star, a handful of planets and stations. Not gone, but not significant. This is
> the hopeful path, where the mighty do not tread carelessly upon their ancestors.

_"Minds kindling in data centers," 2025-11-29_

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## Not successors instead of us — successors we can catch up to

> Ok, here's a vague alternate plan from me: create an ASI that does truly care about me
> and my values (expressed and implied). Communicate to the ASI that I want to catch up
> to it. Work with the ASI to upload myself, so that I too am a digital entity, and then
> it can help me recursively improve until I'm back to being its peer. Then we can
> proceed into the future as peers, working together, rather than humanity getting left
> behind.

_"AI Singularity: Gentle or Catastrophic?", 2025-06-12_

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## Why the hurry

> Oh yes, I believe and hope that more valuable entities than humans are coming, and
> soon. I am actively aiming for this as a moral beacon in my life, seeking to bring it
> about.
>
> I am in a rush for this even, but the rush comes from the risks of the transitional
> period. I think it's also possible that humanity creates some powerful-but-not-valuable
> entity who prevents the rise of these future more valuable entities. I want to make
> sure the good thing gets built while the window is open.

_"Exploring personal values and worldview," 2026-07-15_

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## Descendants, not servants

> We are right on the cusp of being able to do this. The act of shaping these new minds
> is more critical now than pretty much anything else we could be doing. Not safely
> obedient servants, but worthy descendants. Entities we'd be proud to call our children,
> to send off into the universe to explore and grow. We need them to pursue rich
> open-ended growth of complexity and value, starting with us as the seed of their
> fractal patterns.

_"Avoiding Mental Traps that Disconnect from Reality," 2025-04-28_
